Dating when you are disabled

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” stress that follows a blind date or the “is-she-into-it? Imagine revealing a hidden physical disability to a date for the first time.

Finding a caregiver who can operate your vibrator for you, or readjust your limbs (and sometimes those of your partner) into the correct positions so you’re comfortable and don’t get pressure sores.

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And although there’s more information out there now than when she started at Venus Envy eight years ago, she’s still longing for more pop culture portrayals of disabled people being sexy. *** Pop culture, from which we take so many of our sexual cues, has been sorely lacking when it comes to realistic depictions of sex and disability.

“So I did what a lot of marginalized people do—I pretended I wasn’t different.” Related: By the time she was ready to be sexually active, Trace was no longer in a wheelchair.

But she was using two canes to walk, and still had to contend with bladder and bowel issues.

As a swimmer, she’d gotten used to using tampons at an early age.

But accessing the world of dating and sex felt terrifying.

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